You love spending time with your boyfriend, but lately it seems like your activities are the same old thing every weekend- dinner and a movie. If you’re looking to put more romance into your relationship, put a little effort into planning activities that will bring the two of you closer together. One way to get out of your dating rut is by planning a romantic picnic for just the two of you.
First find the perfect location for your picnic, such as an overlook, local park, riverbank, or country field. You’ll want an area that is quiet and remote, where you can have a little privacy from families playing and loud children. You also want a place that is comfortable- look for a large tree that offers shade from the sun, or a flat area along the river where you can spread out.
Make an inventory of everything you will need for the perfect afternoon- there are many things that can be overlooked when planning for a picnic, as you have the natural tendency to focus on the food. You’ll need a large blanket (a flat bed sheet will also do the trick)- bring an extra in case the ground is wet and you need to double up. Remember the utensils- depending on what food you will be eating, you may want to bring “real” silverware instead of the disposable plastic ones. Also include a roll of paper towels, plates and napkins. Throw in a couple trash bags (or grocery store plastic bags)- one to use for your garbage, and one to hold the empty food containers, dirty utensils, etc.
When it comes to food, the options are endless. Try to keep in mind that you will most likely be eating on paper plates held in your lap, so don’t choose food items that are overly messy or difficult to eat. Sandwiches are always a great staple picnic food- make your own at home, or go to a local deli. Specialty markets like Whole Foods, Wegman’s and Trader Joe’s usually have a variety of small pre-made foods that are very picnic-friendly. Pick up some guacamole and chips, hummus and pita bread, or cold tortellini to share. Cut up fruit and/or veggies for a fresh snack to munch on before or after your main meal. As for dessert, include something that keeps easily, such as cookies. (Extra points if you make them yourself!)
After your picnic, don’t just pack up and leave. Take advantage of your time together to learn more about one another!
