You decided to try online dating to see if it would really work and now you find yourself falling in love. Or, at least that is what you think is happening yet you are not convinced that you can really fall in love online. There are several things you need to consider before you determine whether you are really in love or just in lust.
Communication
When you are truly in love you communicate well and talk about everything. This includes talking about your personal life, finances, your goals, fears, and everything in between. Not to mention, you know how to communicate even when you are in an argument! You are also very honest about your opinions and feelings. You are probably not really in love if you have difficulty forgiving one another or you feel you can’t ask questions and receive an honest answer.
Love
When you are truly in love you will be there for one another no matter what happens. You will sacrifice yourself to make your mate happy. You will also be there for them when they need you. You won’t keep secrets from one another and you feel that your needs are met emotionally, physically, and mentally. You are not truly in love if when there are problems your partner is not there for you. The same goes for if there is no true laughter or happiness. You probably aren’t truly compatible if you lie to one another or are only honest when caught.
Respect
If you respect one another and love your mate for who they are without any changes whatsoever then you may be in love. If you support each other’s individuality and listen to one another the you may be in love. You may not be in love if you criticize one another, can’t forgive or forget, and feel like your partner will never live up to your standards.
Yannis
