Sometimes guys ask girls out when they meet them in the grocery store, at a concert, or even in a bar. It’s hard to know if this is the guy you really want to be dating although you can probably tell pretty fast if you are attracted to him. If you do think he is hot and would like to get to know him better, find a way to get the answers to the following questions before saying “yes” to a date. You will learn from the answers to some basic information to help you make a decision!
Is he single?
The first question is important because you don’t want to go out with a guy who is dating someone else. That is not the type of relationship you want to get involved in and it only show the type of guy he is. So, this one is a biggie. Sure, he could lie, but when you ask you will be able to tell by his body language if he is telling the truth.
What’s he into?
You may want to ask him what his hobbies are or what he likes to do. This will give you some insight into the type of guy he is. Don’t feel shy asking him about his hobbies and the things he likes to do because these are important answers for you. If he is into some strange things like devil worshipping or tattooing his whole body, you may want to stay clear. That is, unless you are into those things as well.
What does he do?
A guy’s job says a lot about who he is. Ask about his work or studies. You will learn what he wants to be in life and who he wants to become. It’s completely normal for you to ask what he does so he won’t feel like you are giving him the third degree.
Remember, don’t pepper him with questions, but let them fall into normal conversation. If he asks you out after you have found all of this information out then you will be able to make a good decision whether you are truly into this guy or not. Of course, if you are really attracted to him go ahead and say “yes” because you never know, sometimes opposites really do attract.
Yannis