Sometimes it’s hard to know when a guy is interested. As we know, men are not as open as women when it comes to their feelings, so it’s important to take a few subtle clues.
He Shows Interest A sure sign that a guy is interested is he asks questions about you when you talk. He listens closely and keeps eye contact. If you are out with a group of your friends and a guy you are interested in talks with you most of the time and not with his guy buddies, this is a sign he is interested. In your conversation, if he smiles a lot and is inquisitive when you talk, he’s into you. Also, if you find that he is around you a lot – for instance, he shows up at your birthday party and stays the whole time, or tries to make plans just to hang out among you and your friends, he is interested.
He Reaches Out to You A sure sign that a guy is interested is if he communicates with you regularly when there may be no reason. You find that he is emailing you to ask random questions or dropping you a text to say hi and see what you are up to. Women often wonder why guys don’t call them, when they think that he is interested. While guys are not usually phone talkers anyway, he may not be calling because he is not interested or maybe just wants to be friends. But on the flipside, if he does call you and reach out to you, it’s a clear signal he likes you.
He’s Happy Around You When you are with the guy, does he seem really happy? Does he smile a lot and seem comfortable? If your answers are yes to these questions, he is interested in you. In addition to being happy around you, he may also say nice things and be actively interested in what’s going on in your life. These are all sure signs that he is into you and you can be clear that he is interested.
He Goes Out of His Way If you find that this guy you have an eye on goes out of his way to hang out with you or do nice things, you are probably right to think he likes you. Maybe he goes out of his way to pick you up, or comes to see you but he knows he should be working. If he is making a conscious effort that is outside of his normal routine, you can be sure he likes you.
