All guys love girls with a sense of humor. Men are very attracted to girls that can laugh at themselves and take a joke as well as tell one. The key is finding a balance between humor and sarcasm that is just the right level of funny to get a guy.
Don’t Take Yourself Too Seriously Women that take themselves too seriously can often be hard to read and unpleasant to be around. Of course, there is a time and place for being serious, but there is a lot of fun to be had in life when things are taken with a grain of salt. Men are very attracted to women can that laugh out loud at themselves and not be afraid of making a mistake or being vulnerable. Next time you are out with friends, don’t be afraid to have a good time no matter how you look to others. The sheer confidence of not caring what others think is attractive to men. If you happen to trip on the way to the bathroom, get up and laugh it off and chuckle with your best friend who just saw the whole thing happen. It’s our carefree attitude and sense of humor that will be of interest to men. Don’t be uptight or worried about what people think – have a sense of humor and laugh and be who you are.
Be Careful with Sarcasm Everyone knows that sarcasm can be really funny, especially when delivered in the right way to the right audience. Sometimes girls can take sarcasm too far and it can be a turn-off to guys. If you are trying to be funny and sarcastic about everything, and perhaps inappropriate things, it might not work to your advantage when trying to get a guy. Trying to be overly sarcastic as if you were one of the guys is a tactic to steer clear of when trying to get a guy. It is a myth that guys are looking for a girlfriend that is “one of the guys.” Sure, they want a girl that can hang with the guys, but in a cool way with her own sense of humor and charm.
Just remember that everyone is funny in their own way, especially when you don’t take yourself or life too seriously all the time. Try to always add a little humor and vulnerability and you’ll be surprised at the reaction from the guys.
