Men universally want to be that funny, attractive guy that women fall for. But what men don’t understand is that not all women are looking for the stereotypical “it” guy. Each woman has different taste and a different idea of what they are looking for. What makes you that funny, attractive guy is not a new shirt or hair cut but it is how you carry yourself and the presentation of your personality. Every man can be funny and attractive to women in their own way.
Be Yourself When trying to attract women, the most important thing to remember is to be confident in who you are. A man that has confidence is very appealing to a woman. Don’t try to be someone you aren’t – women see right through this and it is not attractive. Everyone is funny and attractive to someone and it is all a matter of being yourself, acting confident and being open to meeting all types of different people.
Take Things Lightly, But Not Too Much When trying to attract women, it’s helpful to maintain a good balance between funny and obnoxious. Try to be careful about what you say in a joking or sarcastic way – a new person may not always follow your sense and humor and your attempt to be funny may offend or turn a person off.
Be sure to get a feeling for the person before telling that new joke or making fun of a situation. It’s very important to have a light-hearted spirit when trying to attract women, but don’t take it too far. Keep an eye on your alcohol consumption – being or acting too drunk is not funny and can be a turn off. Instead, keep your cool, have fun and maintain an optimistic attitude. Essentially, if you are relaxed and having a good time, you will be surprised how easy it is to attract women.
Use your Natural Charm and Sense of Humor Every guy has the ability to turn on their own personal charm in the right situations. Using the right amount of natural charm combined with your own sense of humor is a great combination for attracting women. Women love a guy who can say just the right thing in a funny, charming way. If you go further and combine your delicate use of charm with perhaps a compliment for the new woman, this is a winning combination! The bottom line is be yourself and don’t go out of your way to be the funniest person in the bar – it may not be what that special woman for you is looking for in a guy.
Yannis