Men always wonder who they should ask out when they are in a crowded restaurant or bar and there are many attractive women. Men who are frequently turned down are not asking out the right women and there could be plenty of women interested in dating them. The following suggestions will help any guy find the right girl to ask out and increase his chances of having her say “yes”!

Eye Contact

Look around the room on a regular basis and see what women are checking you out. When you make eye contact with someone keep checking back to see if she looks back at you. Sometimes, eye contact is inadvertent. Other times, it is not. When a woman is making eye contact with you it is because she is flirting with you. Keep looking at her to catch her gaze, without staring at her. When it is obvious she is interested in you then you may want to walk over and say “hi” or be more subtle and order her a drink through the waiter.

Smiles

Women who smile at you are generally saying, “I like you.” Women are not going to seek men out and give them their biggest smile if they aren’t interested. Generally, women who aren’t interested will do their best to look away and fidget to try to get out of your presence. They send the “don’t talk to me” vibe, so take this to heart. Women who smile are showing you they want to keep talking and that they like talking to you. Give these women more of a chance to see if they could be a potential date for you.

Touching

When a girl touches you several time in an evening it is probably her way of flirting with you. One touch does not count because it really could be by accident. However, multiple touches should signal you to the girl’s interest. Notice every little touch so you know who likes you and who doesn’t!

Keep this information in mind the next time you are out on the prowl. It might help you choose between the girl who is interested in you and the girl who wants nothing to do with you!

The dating scene can be hard. This is especially true if you are looking for the special someone in a bar. Any bartender can tell you they have over heard a lot of different pick up lines. Some of them are really lame and super cheesy. However, there are a lot that are really funny. Here are 20 of the finest:

20.    I may not be the best looking guy in here but I am the only one talking to you.

19. Congratulations, you were just voted hottest girl in the room. Grand prize- a night with me.

18.    Hi, will you help me find my lost puppy? I think he went into this cheap hotel room across the street.

17.    Did you just fart…….. cause you blew me away.

16.    Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?

15.    Can I even get a fake number?

14.    This is incredible. This is the first time that this has ever happened to us. (What?) Each one of my 27 personalities found you cute!

13.    Do you know the difference between conversation and sex? (when she answers no) Oh do you want to go have a talk?

12.    You look like my fifth wife.

11.    Screw me if I’m wrong, but I could swear you were Julia Roberts.

10.    Hi, my name’s Right…Mr. Right

9.    When asked if a lady wanted to dance, she answered no. To which he replied why are you being so picky? I’m not.

8.    “I’m not really this tall….I’m sitting on my wallet.”

7. Have I seen you before? Oh, yeah, I remember - it was in the dictionary under the word FANFREAKINTASTIC!

6.    Your eyes are the same color as my Porsche.

5.    Am I cute enough yet? Or do you need more to drink.

4.    How much does a polar bear weigh? Answer- Enough to break the ice.

3.    You might as well sleep with me because I’m going to tell everyone we did anyway!

2.    Your mom was pretty good, so I figured you would be too.

Number one and our personal favorite:

You’ll do.

Hope you found them as funny as we did.

Have you ever had a 15 or 20-minute conversation with a girl and thought all was going well only to have her say something along the lines of, “It was nice talking to you, but I need to find my friends…”? If this has happened to you then you need to know what happened. Generally, the girl was interested in you enough to have a conversation, but she never committed to the conversation so she left you abruptly. The following suggestions will help you get a woman who is chatting with you to commit to something longer and more involved.

Sit

Most of the time you will meet a girl and start chatting while you are standing up. A great way to get her to commit to the conversation is to have her sit down with you. Find some chairs at the bar or a couch along the wall and sit down to chat.

Dance

You may consider asking a girl to dance after a few minutes of chatting. Doing this will help her commit to more interaction with you and the simple act of dancing will help her feel more committed to you.

Leave

If you have a drink or a jacket, leave it with her and quickly run to the bathroom or to buy more drinks. This makes her miss you enough to want to stick around for a while longer after you return!

Trade Rounds

When a woman buys you a drink, even if you are trading rounds, she will feel a commitment to you. Ask her to trade rounds by buying the first. Then, you buy enough time that she has to make it through two rounds with you and by then she will probably realize you are cool enough that she wants to stick around for more rounds.

Go to Another Bar

If you really want a girl to commit the evening to you then take her to another bar or location. She will actively make the decision to visit another locale with you and realize she is committing herself for the evening, and possibly longer!

You don’t need to have any more 20-minute conversations only to lose the girl again. Use these tips to help you get the girl to commit to you for much longer than a few minutes!

You see men with older women all the time. This bothers younger women, especially when the guy is hot; because they wonder what older women have that could be so appealing. Men are also mesmerized because they wonder what they are missing. Even Ashton Kutcher knows the secret and he married Demi Moore, so there must be something special. Men interested in dating older women should follow some rules, however.

Talk

You may be young and can get down with the best of them, and she probably can, too. However, if she is a mature woman she will appreciate good conversation at some point. This means you need to be prepared to talk. You may want to have a few topics picked out that you are passionate about so you can carry on a good conversation.  Ask her about her work, what she enjoys doing, and her favorite band. You may not have a lot in common, but you should be able to hold a conversation.

Cool, Calm, and Collect

People will stare, whisper, and in general make you feel uncomfortable about your choice in women. That means you had better have a spine if you are going to date an older woman. The good news is that if you are comfortable with all the attention dating an older woman garners, you will impress her to no end.

Forget the Age Difference

Women don’t like to be reminded that they are growing older, and especially not by their younger date. You both know she is older, it turns you both on, so it should be left at that. A passing reference here or there may be okay, but referring to the age difference on a regular basis is not a good idea.

Don’t Act Her Age

Just because she is older than you does not mean you should try to act her age. Instead, act your own age for once! She is with you because she enjoys the carefree spontaneity of youth without commitment. Be yourself and she will truly love it!

When it comes to dating there is always the issue of breaking up. Sometimes relationships just don’t work out, which means that the relationship will need to end.  Women sometimes let relationships go too far, however, because they just don’t know when or how to break up. The following suggestions will help you know when it is time to let him go.

He Stops Calling

When a guy stops calling you as frequently as he did before it could mean many things. In some instances it means he just doesn’t want to talk to you anymore or that he is trying to avoid you. If you feel this is the case simply tell him that the relationship is over and wish him good luck. You don’t need a guy who doesn’t appreciate you or who isn’t man enough to tell you the truth.

He Cheats

Sometimes guys deserve a second chance, but most of the time when it comes to cheating it simply means that he will do it again. You may choose to give him a second chance based on the circumstances. However, if he cheats a second time then you will need to recognize that he is not the guy for you and say goodbye.

He is Abusive

At any time your boyfriend is abusive to you, either physically or verbally, then you need to tell him goodbye. If he goes and gets help on his own and becomes a better person then you may consider a second chance. However, if he doesn’t get professional help then he will never change. Just let him go and find a guy that can appreciate you and treat you with the respect you deserve.

There are plenty of other reasons why you might want to break up with a guy, but these are a few that you can’t work out and should just find a way to tell him adios.